Tuesday, December 31, 2019

2020

I cannot comprehend it's been twenty years since the millennium.. Twenty years since everyone was panicking over the possible millennium bug! That 'they' thought would rash the internet systems around the world.


So many changes for all of us.. 

So many chapters of our lives.. new chapters, old ones, rereading.. reliving..

I don't want to be somber, but New Years Eve?

But I am me.

I raise my cup to you all, you've stayed with me through hell and high water, through sunshine and laughter, through it all.

Thank you... Here is 2020! Another decade awaits!

TTFN
Marian

Monday, December 16, 2019


I hate those phrases "... to die for" or "I nearly died when..."

Sorry, maybe it's just me, but actually, personally, nothing is worth dying for, except perhaps definitely love.

On a clock here it reads in Latin 'Tempus Omnia' which means 'All the time' which is a perfect phrase to be written on the face of a clock..

Whilst Googling though.. first 'Tempus omnia revelat' came up in the search..

Which means...

Time reveals all things and so it will...

TTFN
Marian




Friday, December 13, 2019


Fourth blog today..

And at last I have remembered to write what I wanted to!!

Two things, today my maternal grandparents married.. Their anniversary, one hundred years ago today, in Manhattan.. They had become American citizens already.

I wear my grandmother's engagement ring, it was bought in Tiffany's...

And once I knew the date of their marriage that was when I knew I would celebrate their 100 year anniversary.

That's today!

December 13th 1919-2019

I have been wearing it since my 16th birthday when my mom gave it to me, that was forty four years ago.. 44!

Looks no better numerical does it?

Where did those years go, when did I become me, or you you.. Or are we always 'becoming'?

When we eventually 'become' is that it?

I've been writing, (daily records at work), and I noticed yesterday, my mom's handwriting in my own.

Not all her letters, the M the B.. the R.. and now writing these here I see they're her and my initials.. at times.

TTFN
Marian




Naples


From fast scooter riders, with no helmets and carrying all sorts.. like Spain!


To Christmas lights! The makers of the Nativity scenes I imagine are open all year..

Shall have to return in the spring to check!


Narrow streets... Graffiti, everywhere.. I know maybe I shouldn't like it? But it's art and when it's good, it's worth looking at, and take it's claim as art...


This walls around a basilica, wouldn't have even known it was from three sides of the church..


On a slightly rough edge of the city maybe? Not sure, I felt okay.. but after dark maybe not walked around hereabouts.


Below the door to the basilica..


And it's beautiful interior..





More photograph from Naples..


Amazing archeture..


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Naples


Short video.. very short!

So much of Naples to tell, but no words.. what an amazing place is all I can say, I can't wait to go back..


Although this photograph is pretty much classed as bad photography I think.. I guess?

I have posted because I do like how it looks! It looks like a raging fire or hot white fire, the car entering the fires of hell perhaps!

It was a street lit with beautiful Christmas lights, but from up this hill, the colors were lost..


Lol this is near my son's house! Nothing to do with Naples! But so pretty! Above in the evening and below the morning! Taken last week.. no, yes! Sorry confused with days! Been at work for eight days, so yes, last week.


Back to symbolic horn of Naples! This was the largest I saw!


And these shell things, oh em geeeee! I want one now! Right now! Immediately please!


Vesuvius.. not the best shot taken whilst in a moving vehicle, but the nearest I got!


My grandparents village Quaglietta, again.. oh my my my.. also along with the pastry I wish I were there now..

The design on the saucer here below in a bar in our village... and there the image of Quaglietta...



And of course! I could not leave and go home without a canoli! 

It was amazing, just beautiful.. 

TTFN
Marian


Sunday, December 01, 2019

Quaglietta


Notes from plane..

Okay, been an amazing few days in Naples, Napoli, Neopolis... From the original Greek name when they founded this amazing city..
Arrived here the day after I had flown into Malága..

And today flying back to Malága prior to my flight to the UK tomorrow to Luton.

What can I say..

Photographs will show you what I saw but not how I felt.. That can't be told or shown here..






The feeling here, what a buzz, like being out in a street party! The atmosphere is totally amazing.. the feel of the place.

It is alive.

I know there is a history of being told to be aware of theives bag snatches pick pockets.. but this can be said of everywhere..

Only two times did it seems a bit edgy.. on disembarking from the airport bus, only a ten minutes ride from the airport.. it seemed to be a strange area; could have been anywhere in the world to be honest.. So a bit disconcerting.

Then one time following a road to it's end and seemed to be in a different country!
But still neither time feeling threatened or worried.. although if it'd been dark that would have been a whole different feeling!!

There are a few symbols of Napoli, a predomanant one is a red phallic symbol, a bit like the ones we wore in the 80's of a horn-like shape in silver, or mine was anyways.

They are everywhere, all sizes from the tiniest to the most massive! In jewelry form, to statues, incorporated into any and everything! Key rings, clothing; just everything!

I went into a shop to ask! Trust me, I had to do it!! I said what's the thing about the red chilli shape everywhere.. He said it symbolises a penis.. lol.. yes I was speachless for a moment and said "okay .." then he added as in fertility.. and abundance.

Not sure who felt more weird for a while, me hearing the word penis said out loud in a shop, or him saying it, maybe he thought it would shock me, I was surprised definitely..

Then there is a figure of a man in clown costume.. the white clothes and then the black eyed mask.. he is also, as above on or in everything.

Then there is the Mbriana... I will link to this here.. she I saw in head form, and not sure yet if it's the same woman's head with what appears to be blindfold over her eyes.. saw this in lots of windows too. Found a link to it here I think...

There were amongst the regular stores, lots of antique type places, a mix of old treasures, some seemed more like junk, but there were treasures in there for sure.. Some spooky types, dolls with scary faces.. carved freaky things.. but all so intriguing!

Pasta pastries more pasta and more pastries! I feel totally carbed out! And already craving a canoli!

So much seen, too much to tell! Streets full of people, streets full of market stalls.. men making nativity scenery, men making the figures and animals and furniture to fill them.

Artisans of so many things, sitting making their wares right there in the streets.. beautiful.

Religious items, wood plaster metals..
Walked down underneath the city, walking where the Greeks first built, then the Romans.. layer upon layer.. amazing..

Walked to an Arab castle out past the port..
Stayed in a small duplex apartment right in the heart of the old city, coming out of a door into a street buzzing with scooters and people!

It was also Black Friday, the few days seemed to be a riot of sales! With Friday being the climax, although last night, Saturday the shops open late and people queuing to enter, with security men on the doors only letting a few in at a time!!

The highlight, not right word.. The absolutely best most wonderful news is visiting my grandparents home town.. Quaglietta.

At last Quaglietta, at last real home ground.. and I stood in the ruins of the medieval castle, where my grandparents must have been to, and stood barefoot to connect and I felt I did, like the hippy girl I am.

Went in a bar for coffee.. (and pastry!) Chatted to the man about who I was looking for, past or present.. Going back to ask about an address of a name I had, from the phone book... (Simples), another man, watching from the piazza said the bar was now closed, for lunch! Well, I suppose such a small village, and the bar served drinks coffees pastries, then I guess it would be quiet over lunch!!

Then started talking to the man.. he remembered Bonelli's.. he'd known them from school, from growing up.. he pointed to two houses they'd lived in... He himself had spent time in New York, Queens especially, staying with family... He spoke of 1911 when a big mass started from the village to America..

Started off the search at the cemetery, as one would.. found a few surnames that are in the family, but not Grasso from grandparents days and no Bonelli's at all..

If it's like Spain, bodies, and therefore names are removed after ten years if no money is paid for them to remain inplace..

There were some older stones and plates, but just about every single one, from old to new has fresh flowers on them, which is so amazing to see, and means those departed have family still who visit regularly.

I was walking amongst the headstones and graves, not as many as the normal way of burial there or here.. photographs of both.
And my foot slipped down on a flagstone.. I fell forward and saved myself, but as I tried to stand.. all in a split second really I guess, as my head came back up I hit it, hard, on a metal cross!

Nope, not funny! One little bit.. Well, okay, maybe just the tiniest little bit!

Had lunch in a restaurant which appeared closed, the chef came down to lead us up to a hotel dining area.. he said no menu and told us he would cook and what he would do..

And then, almost at the last, returning to the piazza taking photographs on the Bonelli's house.. the Bonelli Arch!! Amazing find!

So although no Bonelli's in the cemetery, or talked to, signs and words from someone who knew them there.. amazing.
Was sad leaving the village..
Sad leaving Napoli..
But I love home here in Spain.. and soon I'll be off again to work!

TTFN
Marian